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THE PHOTOGRAPH
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This is an incredibly sad song. The woman has held her devotion all
these years for a man who's gone. Why? Was it a lover? A son? Did
he abandon her? Killed in the war? The point is, she's never loved anyone else,
even though she has received no love in return for most of her life. Incredibly romantic. One of my favorite bands, Mana, has a couple of similar songs, the girl is waiting at the dock, waiting for her sailor to come back, or the girl is waiting in the town, waiting for her man who's left to find work elsewhere to come home. Both wait their entire lives, and we see the old woman, la loca, still waiting, her life wasted because of love. Incredibly romantic. Incredibly egoistic on the part of the guy, thinking that, although he's out romping through the world, his girl is home, wasting away, pining for him. And she'll wait and waste her whole life. Because God knows, without her guy, she's nothing. Sorry, different soapbox. Anyway, the girl turns away other, perhaps better suitors, because of her love for the one who is away. It's suppose to be about dedication. Just like a good dog. I still think it's incredibly egoistic on somebody's part. At least in one line of the Mana song, you sort of get the sense that the man feels bad that he's allowed her to ruin her life. (get this--Allowed her--wrong soapbox, again) However, I get the sense from Rick's song, that the man's absence was somehow unavoidable. Isn't it a photograph of a soldier in the cover art? So many men were killed in the great wars, maybe she didn't have so many other great offers. Also in times such as war, I think the guys going away need to feel like their women are going to stand by them no matter what. It's a type of heroism, the sacrifices made on both sides of the gender line. either way, she's dedicated, and now, she's old, and alone... Eleanor Rigby. Funny, as a teenager, it never occurred to me that this song was sad. Now I see it, but I remember thinking it was just and incredibly beautiful concept, that love ENDURED like that. The guy was dead, that part was tragic, but even through that, love didn't die. As a teenager that almost seemed something to aspire to (well, not the dead lover part). Though she's crying in the song, I never really thought of her as sad. I thought of her as still having something that most people would have lost long ago. Ah, the proverbial
"one great love" song. We knew it would show up eventually.
Sometimes I think Rick is a fan of romance novels. In today's society it's hard to
imagine someone who is not "old" that would go through life never marrying again
because they could never find that mate that would match up to the standard set by the
first great love. This is why this song is so appealing to me, I'm not sure it would
be possible for me to do such a thing. I visited my grandmother
regularly in a nursing facility twice weekly for two years. There were
women in residence there who could fit this song, with their photographs by their beds and
tears in their eyes upon mention of departed husband. They also talked to their
photographs :-) <cute little side note here: My grandmother had pictures of my
grandfather and all of her 10 grandchildren. I am her oldest grandchild. The
picture representing me wasn't of me & my husband, but of me and Rick. She was
so proud that I had met "Dr Noah Drake" and would point out to people regularly
that I did. Irked my husband to no end...> This song is the only one on the album in my opinion that the la la la's sound appropriate, or at least are not as irritating. This song reminds me of a Peter, Paul & Mary song. It flows kind of like in a "Puff the Magic Dragon" kind of way. More strange instruments in
Rick's music. A harpsichord.... I repeat... A harpsichord. :o) Works for me in this song
though, as long as I try to forget about all the GREAT guitar stuff to come in Rick's
music that is. When I think harpsichord, I think Mozart. This seems to be a story of a woman who loved a man that died, and never got over him. When I was picturing the story in my head, I'd always think of him as a soldier. The rhyme scheme bothers me a little, it seems a little forced. The whole song seems a little forced to me, actually, like a story being told without any real emotion behind it. |
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